Be The Change You Want To See; Transition Yourself Through Change
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A tiny stem emerges through the hardened soil, triumphant in its transition from a sprouted seed to a single, slender, glorious stem.
A caterpillar wraps itself into a dark cocoon and begins the transformation inside a silvery chrysalis, laboring to emerge as a delicate, vibrantly colorful butterfly.
A baby positioned to make its entry into the awaiting world follows the cues of the mother's body, as it contracts and opens and expands to make ready the birth canal for the baby's grand voyage into living, open, breath life.
Change Comes In Different Stages
Change comes in different stages, but it's never the beginning or the end that is the most difficult, it is the period of transition which requires the most focus and labor. Transition is the bridge that makes change possible. The time required varies according to conditions. But in most cases, it does mean transformation is eminent.
The stem will continue to grow and a flower will appear, providing all conditions are favorable. The flower may attract the bees and butterflies to provide nectar for the continuing propagation of life.
The butterfly will continue to grow and feed and nourish throughout its short life cycle. They remind us of of the beauty and fragility of life.
The newborn will grow rapidly and continue to form throughout different stages of it's life until adulthood is reached. The adult will also continue to adapt and go through life stages until the final passage of death.
How To Make Transition Less Difficult
How can we make the transition of change less difficult? Being prepared to the best of our ability can always help. Realizing there will be necessary shifts to accelerate or decelerate the process can help cushion the uncertainty and apprehensive period that often accompanies this transitional phase. Realizing that it is a crucial and necessary part of change, and that it won't last forever, can help us focus on moving through the uneasiness. Focusing on the end goal with visualization, meditation, yoga or by practicing body relaxation techniques can help calm the mind and body. A simple calming breath can help relax the mind and body.
Don't Give up During The Transitional Phase
As human beings, we can add emotional layers to help ease a transition, by using humor, empathy, compassion, resolve, tenacity, courage and understanding. We can even forewarn others to bear with us and support us while we make the transformation from cocoon to butterfly.
As humans we can reach out and support and encourage and cheer each other on as we make the necessary transitions that life requires from each of us. If we fail to make it through the transitional period, the change is not complete. The transformation will be delayed or suspended when change was eminent. Don't give up!
"Be The Change You Want To See In The World"
Whether it be the transition of birth, to middle school, to college graduate, to first job, to marriage, to fatherhood, to new job, to new home, to loss, to widowhood, to disability, to retirement, to whatever life changes we face, we can ease the transition by accepting that change is a dynamic, essential part of life. Making a change in character or lifestyle requires a good look in the mirror, and wanting to make the very best of our human existence.
Although not always easy, we should embrace change and realize by doing so, our own human potential enlarges and expands. Life is a journey, make it amazing! "Be the change you want to see in the world" Mahatma Gandhi
Make that change. love, light~ rebekah
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Man In The Mirror - Michael Jackson
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Change is something that lots of people find really difficult, so thanks for this hub. The only certainty we have in life is change, so we do need to learn to embrace it
What a brilliant reminder of change. Awesome hub! I love your choice of YouTube - Michael Jackson too - gotta be an all time favourite!
Change is usually something I dread and then most of the time it turns out better than I expected. This is a very good article about change and the stages we experience.
Thanks Apostle Jack, If it inspires one person, it has done its work. Change is a beautiful thing, even though difficult at times. Thank you for reading!
@CMHypno, I think the more we embrace change and look forward to it's possibilities, we become more who we really are. Thanks for reading and commenting.
#acaetnna, Thanks! Michael says it well, doesn't he? I'm glad you found it useful. :)
Thanks Pamela, You're not alone, most people do dread change and like to stick to familiarity. There is constant change in nature, and look at its beauty. It is the same for humans if we allow it to take its course and stay in the constant flow.
Hey Rebekah, very well written hub. Thumbs up! However, humans are very feeble individuals on their own. Many of them do not like change. Change is not always seen as a good thing, which is because fear of the unknown. Many people are very happy to remain ignorant in their ways. I've written a couple of hubs on change/difference each of can make, not only to our own life, but to other people's life as well. I am not posting the links to them, because the hubs are only somewhat relevant. But, the titles are "A Single Conscious Mind Changes World" and "How Humanity Habitat- Changing Life- We Can Make A Difference" are the hubs, if you care to see them. If people truly understood their life, then they wouldn't be afraid of change, regardless of the unknown factors involved. Thank you for sharing such a wonderful hub. :)
Hi Cags, Nice to see you and thanks! Yes, humans are feeble and most of us don't enjoy change because, as you say, there is fear of uncertainty and the unknown. I think the more we are in touch with our inner selves, and are confident in our abilities, the easier the transitions become for us. Humans are also extremely strong and if we concentrate on doing whatever it is we're called upon to do, often in the face of change, we grow and discover our human potential is really only limited by our attitude and our thoughts. I will definitely take a look at your hubs within the next couple of days. They sound interesting! Thanks for posting and thanks for reading!
Awesome hub, I enjoyed it alot.
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Thanks so much rorshak. It makes my day when I read a comment like this. Its always nice to hear Michael Jackson, isn't it? :)
Very inspiring hub and you made this so beautiful. I got new motivation after reading this hub. Well done, my friend. Rated up!
Prasetio
Thanks for the inspiration. It's hard in life trying to create something original or from scratch, so sometimes you're better off just ignoring those naysaying voices in your head and getting on with the work. Excellent hub.
Hi Rebekah, it feels like the last few years were all transition. You have watched it take place as the persona of Winsome took shape here on HP. The scattered flotsam of the "big bang" of separation gathered into a cohesive and focused realization that no matter what changes around me, I can control only my own attitude and response. It feels more comfortable when I build from what I know and what I enjoy. Thanks for your part in that transformation. As Tony says,
Peace and love. =:)
Thanks Prasetio. I'm always happy to see your visit at one of my hubs. I'm glad you found inspiration and motivation here. That's why we write, yes? Just as I have found wonder and inspiration from reading your hubs! Peace.
Hello BlueDinosaur, You're so right. Stepping outside of the box is liberating. Our creativity has no limits when we believe we are more than ordinary. Thanks for reading and taking the time to comment.
Winsome, I remember your first comment on my Love Quotes hub. You talked about love transcending us into a different dimension. When love fades, it never disappears, it goes where it's needed. I like your attitude about attitude. I think no matter what we go through, when we realize that everyone goes through life facing major transitions, we are able to let the walls fall down and be our own architect, and continue the building or rebuilding process. I'm very happy to be part of the transformation in your life.
love, light always~~ xo
Another hub which reader may enjoy is written by Winsome.
http://hubpages.com/hub/Be-the-Best-or-Die-Laughin
What a great title, yes? It is an excellent hub about making choices.
What an awesome Hub rebekah. "Be the Change" has always had a bit of a lofty, esoteric ring to it which makes it difficult to define. Your Hub says it all with style and power. Great stuff! Self discovery of the need to change is the start. Not being fearful of the transformation begins the journey. Thanks for the link to Winsome's Hub too. (one of my favorite authors here).
As I often say, just wait five minutes and everything will change. But change is so so hard. We all seem to resist it when things are going well, welcome it and look for it when things are going badly. Either way, inevitably, changes always does and will come. Thank you for your insightful article. I enjoy many of the same interests as you.
Hi Green, thanks! It appears that change is not really an option, it's something we all face. Some do better than others. Even HP is now in a transition. I like how you say, not being fearful of the transformation begins the journey'. That's truly being self aware. Thanks so much for reading and commenting. It's always nice to see you.
@Hi Exotic HQ, yes, things can change in a moment. I guess that's one more very good reason to keep our head and hearts in the now, and make it the best we can. Thanks for stopping by!
This is such a wise and inspiring article. Thank you for sharing.
And sometimes you wanna change something but you can't even pin point exactly what that is.. You'll just know there is something that should change.. but then feel hopeless and clueless about the whole thing, maybe for decades even.
Very well said and so true. I have a few changes i want to make with my life that will be very different. This is a true and inspirational hub. great work. voted awesome
Thanks Latasha! I'm happy to have inspired you. Thank you for reading and sharing a comment.
@4tune, I think that is probably very true for many people.
Maybe because sometimes we're hesitant to look within and listen. I think the answers are always within when we are ready to trust ourselves and go forward. I know for myself, writing in a journal helps me bring my inner thoughts out where I can see them.
Thanks for reading and sharing!
@Fullerman, thanks so much. Best to you with the changes you want to make. I think it's exciting when we know we need to make a change and we can begin the process. Be patient with yourself. Thanks for the vote also. I'm glad you found it inspiring.
Hi another inspiring piece of work,which you have penned in your unique style. Your work is always a pleasure to read, thank you for sharing. Best wishes to you.
Hi rebekALLE, I get comfortable and set in my ways then become scared of change, but things are changing around us all the time and we have to move on, this is beautifully written and inspiring, I look forward to reading more of your work, thank you.
Thank you kindly, D.A.L., I appreciate your words and it's always a pleasure to see your visit. Best wishes to you also!
Hi Movie Master, nice to see you here. Thank you! Yes, we all seem to find our comfort zone, which sometimes isn't so comfortable. Change is dynamic, it makes all things move in a new direction. I don't believe life is meant to be boring, which can happen if we get stuck and don't want to make the changes. I really enjoyed finding your hubs, they are wonderful.
Thanks for this hub - useful! It reminds me of one thing I learned long ago but had forgotten over the years - I have the power to create the life I want. Quite empowering message you have here. Thanks again :)
Excellent opening, awesome hub! Dealing with transitions is a constant feature of life, best for us to accept that as fact and learn how to deal with it. Transitions and changes are also part of our growth as a person, I feel that it would be foolish to fight it. Reminds me of a de la Rouchefoucauld quote, "the only thing constant in life is change." Thanks for sharing this rebekahELLE.
Thanks for reading kerlynb! I'm glad it inspired you. Yes, every day is a gift, and we have the power to make each day into something beyond the ordinary!
Hello moiragallaga, thank you for reading and your generous comments. Yes, I think of that quote often myself. Without that constant, we would not grow and blossom. Life is.. change. :)
I happened upon this Hub kind of by accident, and it turned out to be one that kind of hits home for me. I know this isn't what the Hub is aimed at (and that comparing life change to this will seem shallow and inappropriate), but I've been in a transition with my writing for some time now. What was was once simple has now become, essentially, a big, complicated, half-baked, mess! I know where I'm aiming, but a) it's taking forever, and b) I just seem to be creating a bigger and bigger mess with each new step.
So anyway, although this may not be quite what you had in mind in writing this Hub, I've particularly appreciated being reminded of that "transition factor" in growth. Basically, I just haven't been thinking in terms of transition and have, instead, been thinking in terms of where I was, where I'd like to be, and the fact that I've seemed stuck in "limbo" for ages now. So, although I know your Hub wasn't aimed at me and my little writing "issues", thank you for the reminder about the transition factor.
Hi Lisa, actually the hub is aimed at any kind of transitional period we find ourselves in, which for many right now on HP, may include their style of writing. I initially was inspired to write it because HP is in a transitional phase. I've seen the frustration and impatience from many as evidenced in the forums and with some of the hub topics.
I think with any kind of change, we have the tendency to expect the results the way we want them, now. Perhaps it may help if you simply leave it in neutral for a time period until your thoughts become clearer on what you want to write. The thing about transitions is that the time period varies according to the conditions we find ourselves in. But also, we can modify those conditions if we so desire. I still see many in the forums blaming HP for their earnings issues (not you). I'm from the firm belief that we make our own conditions within those we can't control.
So, yes, the hub is aimed at whoever finds it helpful in whatever transition they may find themselves! I'm glad you found it helpful, and thanks for reading and commenting! Best to you with your writing. :)
I think that the hardest transition is losing loved ones to death which of course is inevitable. Nice to have the support of friends and family through all types of transitions and changes which come along in life. Useful hub. Thanks!
I think you're probably right, Peggy. Death can be a difficult transition, especially when unexpected. And broken relationships, losing a job, a friend, a home, can almost be like mini 'deaths'. Something has been taken away; we have to deal with these transitions and ultimately, life changes, the best we can. Friends and family are our lifeline. :)
What a great hub! Change is a great topic, because we all experience it often in our lives. I have written about change a while back in my hubs. We have to change, yet we hate change too. The analogy of the butterfly and the transition of the baby child is wonderful her too. Cheers!
Hi, rebekah. Indeed, change is a process that we all go through constantly in life. What makes a person resists the occurrence of change is when he is stucked to the comfort zone of his own world. Life is dynamic and we don't expect it to be as it is infinitely. In organizations, in our status in life, love, technology, you name it, and everything continuously evolve into something that we haven't known in the past. The best attitude is to welcome change as an opportunity to exude the best that you can be in the transition period. Definitely, resistance may exist but when we realize that we cannot evade the occurrence of change do we immediately recognize the value of having changes in our system and generally in our life.
Hi Cheeky Girl, thanks! I think we reach a point in our lives which welcomes change. It's like a breath of fresh air.
But reaching that point requires going 'through the fire' at least once or twice in our lives. We find that we came out alive and are ready for new possibilities. We need those times of vulnerability to make us stronger human beings. Always nice to see you. xo
Thank you Xinox, love your comment! I couldn't agree with you more. I remember reading somewhere that something as simple as changing 20 things in our environment can make a difference in how we function, it stimulates our brain and allows us to experience change in our daily routines. Those seemingly insignificant changes help us deal with the bigger life changes we all must experience.
Comforting and inspiring words for those who must accept change - that is, all who live, for life is change.
Very profound words of wisdom and it came right at a time that I needed reminding of the way I should see myself at the end of my end goals and transitioning path!
Cheers now!
waynet, I'm glad to hear the words helped you! It's easy to lose focus and get caught up in the change itself rather than moving through the transitional phase. Best to you!
This was a truly inspiring hub and I'm so glad that I got to read it.
Changes in our lives are most of the times healthy, but that doesn't mean it comes easy. However to be afraid and stick to familiarity all the life, is life without living.
Voted up and if there was a button for "inspirational" I would like to have checked that, but you got awesome instead!
Sannel
Change is a good thing in my life but the transitionary period is not always easy. A very inspiring hub.
BLESS SOMEONE TODAY By BERNARD LEVINE
Bless someone today with words of kindness
Do something nice for a friend
Sow seeds of encouragement into a stranger's heart
Tell your loved ones you greatly adore them
Make someone's day precious and beautiful
Give God praise for His greatness
Strengthen your companion with fruits of joy
Add faith to your neighbour's life
Bless someone today and remember - Jesus loves you.
© Bernard Levine
I'm experiencing great change currently as I quit my day job and went into working for my self full time as a web developer, so I have been going through a great deal of transitional changes.
Many changes one may go through won't always be the most pleasant, by if you stay the course I've learned many times over that it definitely sprouts a better outlook overall. Outstanding hub here @ rebekahELLE.
Voted up on every level except for funny, because this change thing you wrote about is a serious matter for us all.
Thanks for the comments!
@cloudexplorer, I hope your changes will go well. Sometimes it's so easy to get caught up in the transitional stage that we lose focus. Keep your eye on your goals, maybe break them into smaller time frames which often are more achievable. It's encouraging when we accomplish even the smallest goal on our way to bigger goals. I'm so glad you found the hub helpful. Best to you!
Very beautiful hub. You did a wonderful job presenting this material. I like how you talked about transition within the change...sometime we forget that change is not an overnight occurrence and will take time. We will move through various stages as we become what we want to become. Thanks for sharing a great hub!
Apostle Jack Level 3 Commenter 11 months ago
You said it well.I hope that you inspire many with this powerful presentation.Voted awesome.